Okay, I’ll be the first to say — I didn’t hate Five Feet Apart. Actually, while it was far from perfect, it’s probably been my favorite media portrayal of CF so far. The mistakes and exaggerations of certain things drive me a bit crazy, but I thought it did such a good job of portraying the emotional elements of CF, particularly when it comes to the unique friendships between us. I may be very biased when it comes to this because I’ve been fortunate enough to have become very good friends with other CFers at my center. I’ve heard people say (about the movie), “you’re not allowed to just wander the hospital with other patients at night” but I literally used to do that exact thing! I’ve also lost some of these friends and when Stella says, “He was my best friend and I never got to hug him,” I feel that deeply. All of this to say, something about Five Feet Apart just does it for me.
I’d like to see more media representation of CF in general. I’ve seen a few reality show contestants who have CF, but they are never shown doing treatments or anything and their story is always painted as being super inspirational; overcoming their illness in order to succeed. I’d love to see portrayals of the day-to-day life of someone with CF. We don’t need to “overcome” anything in order to succeed or be happy – we can do that while also living with and managing CF.