We Need to Expand Our Perspective of the Coronavirus

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The cystic fibrosis (CF) community is handling COVID-19 in two ways.

Some claim that people are finally getting a taste of life with CF. “We wore masks before it was cool,” they say (I stole that one). We always worry about germs. The coronavirus will impact us more than others due to our fragile immune systems and the boggy marsh of our respiratory systems just waiting to harbor germs.

Others refute the reactionary fear-mongering of the COVID-19 crisis. Not everyone with a chronic illness is at risk. Not everyone with CF spent the past few decades in Soderbergh-directed fear, and not everyone with CF is immunocompromised.

There is more to take away from this viral outburst than viral memes. Yes, people will probably glare at CF patients, attributing their chronic cough to corona-catastrophe. Yes, everyone believes that people with CF are more at risk. Yes, everyone’s feelings are valid.

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Could “coronaselfies” start trending? (Photo by Bailey Anne Vincent)

Perspective is the only upside to a pandemic. But we need to expand our perspective beyond the two sides of the sick coin.

I am bothered by how many people say, “It only impacts the elderly.” Ageism is alive and well, especially in Western nations. Who do we think will impart much-needed wisdom? It’s not the 20-year-olds making CF meme memorandums and “quarantinis,” or the ones doing plague-Toks (TikToks with a coronavirus twist). It’s my parents. The elderly. The people who know more than we do.

We know that “all lives matter.” But we don’t always think about all lives during a global crisis. It’s hard. Even liberal snowflakes such as me can’t cry enough (biodegradable, non-GMO) tears for marginalized communities. Frankly, I am too spoiled and #blessed to really get it.

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Make it glam, but make it a few feet apart. (Photo by Bailey Anne Vincent)

Social media posts on #blessings are overwhelming me. For example, I tried to read a few CF survival guides this week about staying safe during this tumultuous time. “Have your food and medications delivered,” people say. “Use services such as Hello Fresh or Amazon Prime,” others write. “Buy in bulk and get ahead of your prescriptions so you have reserves.”

But these brilliant ideas assume socioeconomic status. My family pinches pennies to afford groceries, let alone subscription services or online fees. We live in a rural area where takeout is unavailable. Even if we wanted to get medications 30 days in advance, we couldn’t afford the copays.

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When your sanitary bathroom portraits need better lighting. (Photo by Bailey Anne Vincent)

This virus will hit some people harder, and that’s just fact. Not everyone can stock up on supplies before they sell out. Not everyone can afford the technology or WiFi to shift their lives online. Not everyone can be like everyone, and we need to remember that.

Maybe I’m a minority in the CF community. I don’t know. I feel more isolated in isolation than ever before while scrolling through social media. We have many things to consider, even as a smaller community.

I am so grateful to have a home, a family, and the capacity to compare and contrast the impact of the coronavirus on different populations. I am spoiled and #blessed, yes, but I still have so much to learn.

Perspective is the only upside to a pandemic, and sometimes it’s a hard pill to swallow.

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