Giving Thanks for the Positive Things CF Has Brought
It’s that time of year when we sit around our tables with carved turkeys, mashed potatoes, and a healthy dose of gratitude in honor of Thanksgiving. Sometimes I struggle to feel grateful. While gratitude may not come easily, the behavior can be learned and reinforced by making it part of our daily routine.
Research suggests that the practice of gratitude contributes to psychological, social, and physical well-being. So, as we sit down this week to ladle the gravy, I think it is important to look at our disease and see the good in our experiences with cystic fibrosis (CF).
Following are some of my reasons to be grateful for CF:
‘Normal’ highs are extra special
Life with CF is filled with disappointments and pain. We can struggle to maintain a sense of normalcy. “Normal” life often feels out of reach. However, significant life moments such as graduations, weddings, childbirth, and first jobs are bigger and brighter when we do accomplish them. Perhaps it’s because of the challenges along the way. I believe that achieving a milestone when you have CF feels incredibly special because it’s another step toward beating the odds.
A community of people who ‘get it’
Our CF community is amazing. No one understands the grossest truths, saddest defeats, and weirdest quirks of our disease better than another CFer. We all want to feel “understood.” I’m very grateful to be connected to extraordinary friends who support me and enrich my life. Our friendships are deep because we share unique experiences that bind us together. I appreciate it when I have a coughing attack while on the phone and my CF friends respond to it by ignoring me and talking louder. That’s true friendship.
Empathy is a gift in today’s world. Living with CF increases our capacity to reference and understand another’s experience. Managing complicated emotions, medical issues, and stressful situations on a daily basis makes it easier for us to empathize with others’ challenges. I believe that this CF-related empathy makes us better human beings. I am grateful my disease gives me the ability to understand another’s pain so I can offer support and be there for them.
What are you grateful for? Share in the comments section below. And have a happy and healthy Thanksgiving!
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We are very grateful to have our son Christopher.
He was born in August of 90 and by Thanksgiving he was diagnosed with CF by two weeks before Christmas he was in the Hospital for failure to thrive. Now he has done many wonderful things at age 8 he lived in Japan for a Year. By 16 he had graduated HS a year ahead of his peers. He is an eagle scout and loves ancient cultures. In September of 2011 he had a bilateral lung transplant and a year to the day after was a "Prince" in Fantasy land at Walt Disney World. He has his Associates degree in marketing and has designed his own line of jewelry for men. https://noblemenjewelry.com/
I know for having lived it what you have gone through and what he has gone through to get where he is. May he continue to thrive!
Your son sounds amazing - what a wonderful job you must have done raising him to be confident and motivated.