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Fear vs. Caution
I’ve recently been talking about Fear vs. Caution both online and with people in my home life. Throughout the course of this pandemic, I’ve heard and read the phrase “you can’t let fear control your life” more times than I can count. It seems that the belief behind these words is that taking precautions and complying with health guidelines is equivalent to “living in fear.”
I’ve only been bothered by this when it comes from people I know and love; people who never said this to me when I previously chose to wear a mask in a crowded gymnasium or theater during cold and flu season. They didn’t think I was fearful when I stopped volunteering in my daughter’s classroom because exposure risks were too high. I’ve never been accused of letting fear control my life when I practiced distancing and masking around others with CF. Why is it that now, when I do those same things, I’m mocked for being afraid?
The social aspects of CF have always been fascinating to me. More than physical symptoms, I really enjoy delving into the social and emotional elements and implications of this disease. Currently, the intersection of CF and COVID have created a lot to delve into. This idea of caution vs fear is something I’ve been giving a lot of thought to.
Has this happened in your life? Have you noticed that things previously considered cautious or even smart are now considered a fear response? How are you handling these conversations if/when they arise?
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